Walk of Confidence When you enter any room, assume that you’re liked by all present and they’re looking at you with awe. Assume. The rest takes care of itself. When you yourself assume that you’re awesome, it puts on a mutual effect and what follows is a shower of generous wave of agreements and smiling nods.Nod. Period. Nodding shows approval.
This shows that you’re an attentive person and can be trusted with. While you may have a bag full of relatable awesome stories, the world likes you to LISTEN TO THEM rather than hear you speak. Listening can be acknowledged by nodding and Wear BlueStudies have shown that people who wear the colour blue are more trusted than people wearing other colours. Blue signifies trust and can be used to manipulate people subconsciously into thinking that they can trust you with any task. Now you know what to wear for that meeting of yours coming up. Right?The Hand-Head DanceUse gestures to your advantage.
The more you use hand gestures perfectly co-ordinated with your words, everything looks real. Instead of explaining how you fell off your bike with words, show it with your hands by using less words. People LOVE a good show.
CopyCat, Kill the RatCopy one’s movements subtly, not openly but SUBTLY. This connects you with the other person and once that is established, you both will agree a lot (Read as HE/SHE will agree with whatever you say *Wink* ). Cath the ‘i’.Try putting up definitive eye contact. This opens up and will establish you as a more open person. When in eye contact, the opposite person concentrates on telling the truth as they may not be as distracted as they will be without one. While this has it’s own limits as overdoing might jeopardise your friendship/connection and they might end up putting you in the creep list.
(Be careful maybe?).While these might be some WONDERFUL tips to meet and connect with people, overdoing anything will break people out of their comfort zone. As they say in Chinese Wu Ji Bi Fan Which means too much of a good thing can be a bad thing. Wu Ji Bi Fan my dear friends.